How to find that special silky woman??

[silktaffetafetish]

Ladies and gentlemen,

How can a young, single man who adores women in silk go about finding one online?? I just worship women in silk and I would love to have a wife that can share my adoration of her body in silk as the basis for a lifetime commitment. Am I a hopeless romantic or is my sense of relationship based on finding a woman who loves silk incorrect?

I am not a cross dresser, or someone who masturbates with silk, or uses silk as the basis for calling it 'love', such a person has an addiction and addictions destroy relationships. There are plenty websites willing to take advantage of such mentally unstable people who have let their addiction rule them and leave them more mentally disturbed.

Many people cannot see the trees from the forest, and there are many of those people who love silk more than the women who wear it! What a tragedy! Imagine a person with a silk addiction who is married, what if his wife stops wearing silk one day? Does that mean the marriage is over? So a relationship needs sharing of common interests and desires and needs to be based on healthy desires and recognition.

I am not a vain person with an addiction to silk because silky clothes without a woman are useless, but silk on a woman is heavenly, the world’s most powerful aphrodisiac. The emphasis is on the woman who wears it, it has to be, otherwise what’s the point in liking silk? I know my mind and what I want and what I accept… I am a man who genuinely loves women who wear silk and believe that such women should be admired and worshiped. All I need is to find one of these women, but where are they?? This may not be the best place to ask for advice but here goes anyway!

Any advice would be greatly appreciated!!
An admirer of silky women!

[satinsmith86]

http://www.debenhams.com/webapp/wcs/sto ... en~Dresses

I love this woman in this taffeta dress! u like?

[JanetandNick]

Ladies and gentlemen,

I am not a cross dresser, or someone who masturbates with silk, or uses silk as the basis for calling it 'love', such a person has an addiction and addictions destroy relationships.

Ouch.... have to disagree with this
We enjoy the company of CDs/TVs - they are usually more fun than single guys
We enjoy satin mutual masturbation
Not sure about the addiction bit (we enjoy a lot of other sexy things too) - but we certainly keep coming back to satin fun
But it definitely hasn't destroyed our relationship, quite the opposite.

In fact, looking back at people we've known over the years, there is a clear pattern.
It is LACK of sex that destroys relationships, never too much sex.

Janet

[silktaffetafetish]

Thanks Janet for your insight, I appreciate it! I take you point on a healthy lasting relationship built on frequent sex, and if wearing silk/satin is the reason for that then it is great that two people have found a common interest. That would also be my reasoning and it is the main reason why I want a woman who accepts that part of me. Regarding CDs/TVs being more fun than single guys... I don't have any experience of that so I'll take you word for it, even though it seems strange and very extreme! Call me selfish but I wouldn't replace or substitute a beautiful woman with silk or satin as the object of my passion under any circumstances! The woman comes first, silk is second... Enjoyment of something powerful has to be shared to be appreciated otherwise it loses it's sense of magic and purpose!

Thanks satinsmith86 for your pic! I love the woman and the dress in the pic! But I tend to love all women in taffeta dresses!! Any pics of women in taffeta that you find please post them, I'll definitely take a peek! That goes for all everyone who sees this post!

From an admirer of silky women!

[YvetteTV]

Hi there,
You seem like a thoroughly nice fellow, so I'll try to answer you gently! Firstly, I really must take issue with your feelings that any person who likes silks and satins as a part of sexual arousal is somehow mentally unfit! Your own chosen screen-name, mentions two kinds of fabric and the word,' fetish'. Now I don't know if you realise this, but the classical definition of a fetish is something (an object, a texture, a scenario), that is deemed important to achieve full sexual arousal. Indeed there ARE many people for whom the presence of silks and satins would be necessary to become fully relaxed and aroused. But then, there are many who find things like breasts, lips, hair, the pubic mound sexually exciting too, but nobody would feel that such a person is abnormal.

You seem a little worried and defensive about your love of women in silky things, but I urge you to consider this as not something to be ashamed opf of, but rather, evidence of the multi-sensual nature of your personality..something an equalloy sensual woman would respond to I am veyr sure.

Janet is right...there are MANY wonderful successful relationships where silkiness plays an integral and central role sometimes, or even often. But any woman who might terminate a relationship with a man because he encourages and applauds his lover in the wearing of fine lingerie...and not just for visual sedcution- is I'm afraid, likely to be a woman uncertain of her feminine powers.

My wife and I have worn silks and satins for and during love-play for 20 years now, and like Janet, it only deepens and extends our repertoire!

You asked about where and how you could meet a woman of your silky dreams? The answer is ANYWHERE and at any time! I realise that sometimes when you see or meet a woman, she might not be showing the wonders of silks and lace under a jumper of skirt, neither will she be wearing the long full silk or satin nightgowns she sleeps in!

But a conversation with that woman..a woman who enjoys food...who moves well, who shows sensitivity to touch, smells, textures.....will almost certainly be the kind of woman you might seek.

You might like to try OK Cupid..a free dating-site where there is ample opportunity to write of your WHOLE nature and the thhings you love (including your love of silkies)..thousands of women use it, and some of them might just be what you seek.


Let me know if there is anything I can help with and in the meantime..try not to be too judgemental of others without first being sure that you know yourself well first and feel comfortable with what you are!

Best of luck!

Edward

[silktaffetafetish]

Thanks Edward for this helpful advice. Much appreciated.

[maiden]

I would have to agree with Edward.
Best of luck in your search!
I have pretty much given up. I did however, have a girlfriend a couple of years ago who was into it. But she had never been a satin lover before, but after a couple nights together, she had remarked, "I could see how this could be quite enjoyable". Problem was, she was not very attractive, very annoying, and acted very tomboyish in nature, both with her clothes and personality. We're still friends and she says she will keep my secret to herself. I hope she still has!
In my parts here, in Canada, it seems like women aren't into wearing satin in public. La Senza seems to have completely stopped selling it. I could count the number of satin items for sale on 2-3 fingers. The corsets and merrywidows seem to be the only sexy lingerie they sell now. Which is hilarous cause they're all for sale for 50-70% off now. Good luck trying to find satin panties anywhere for sale, in any stores, around here. La Vie En Rose has a huge selection of satin lingerie, in our downtown mall, so women somewhere must be buying it, haha. None that I've ever dated though. It's something I basically had to beg my ex-wife to wear, and I think she got a little weirded out by my fascination.
You see satin clothed women all over tv shows, models all over the internet, etc, but yet it doesnt seem like women EVER wear it in public around here. I've gone on lots of first dates and I always say to myself, "please, please be wearing a satin blouse". Don't even get me started on makeup and perfume! It seems almost non-existent on women around my parts, at least. I think that's part of the reason I've taken so much to the more feminine related stuff, cause it seems like the women around here could care less.
Speaking of dating sites, plenty of fish is the only good free one that I know. But around here it's pretty slim pickings on the really feminine looking and acting type ladies.
A lot of what I've been saying isn't related to the topic, sorry, just venting. But I've pretty much accepted that I'm not going to find my "special silky woman".
Maybe she's out there, and maybe there's one for you somewhere too.

[wheelie]

As you can see from my wifes pictures I have a woman who is more than willing to dress up in silky satin clothing,usually nighties or slips but she has been known to wear a nice satin dress when the occasion calls.In my experience the best way is to buy her something nice,steer well clear of tacky gear...it's important you don't buy something that's going to make feel stupid or cheap.Once you've made your choice pick your moment,mine came after a couple of drinks & she was feeling amorous.I placed the nightie on her pillow & said nothing...just waited in the lounge while she went up stairs.Five minutes later there she was,a vision of silky beauty stood in the door way looking & obviously feeling sexy in her new outfit.That's the first battle won...next comes the flattery,so important when your looking for this to become a regular thing.Tell her how amazing she looks,how sexy she is in her new outfit,how much your turned on seeing her dressed that . Stroke her,caress her,make it as pleasurable as you possibly can & try & ensure the satin plays as big a part as possible,use your imagination.What worked for me was...I stood her in front of the mirror in the lounge & we both watched as I caressed her tits,stroked her nipples,told her how amazing her nipples looked & felt through the silky fabric.I then popped her tits out & pulled up the bottom of her nightie over her tits & gently moved the silky fabric in all directions brushing over her nipples (she has the most amazing sensitive nipples) that was it,that was the moment.Even now,years later she still loves having her nipples brushed with her satin nighties.So,she's happy & I'm happy...works both ways.
I hope you have success in your quest for your silky lady.Any advice on getting a woman to wear stockings ? (that ones failed me)