A female's point of view?
Posted: Tue Jul 19, 2011 2:06 pm
Hi All,
Just wondering if there is any such thing anymore as that rare breed of lady that are into Satin too? If you read on you will understand my reason for asking...
I have tried broaching the subject of my passion for Satin with my current partner and although trying to be extremely subtle about it and moving things very slowly I seem to have hit a brick wall. I started out by letting my partner know that I found Satin extremely sexy, that I was driven crazy by the look and feel of it and she never raised an eyebrow, probably because, quite deliberatly, I never revealed the full extent of my fetish. (I hate the 'F' word! Seems to have such a stigma attached to it that scares most ladies half to death!) Anyway, I then went a little further and suggested that she might wear some during our fun times and that it would certainly make things more interesting and offered to return the favour if she had any particluar 'likes'? Again she seemed ok with this so I finally plucked up the courage to buy her a sexy black pleated satin mini-skirt and again she was fine. Opting to wear it on occasions herself without needing any prompting from me at all. However, a while ago however I realised that she had not worn it for quite a considerable time and I very sucsinktly dropped it into conversation only to be told that she now apparently finds the thought of the whole thing "depraved and perverted". (Slightly harsh I thought), and she has refused to wear the skirt for a long time since. (We never got to the point of me actually revealing the full extent of my love for the stuff or of me telling her that I'd like to wear the skirt myself during sex, so I am pretty confident that this is not the reason she had had the sudden U-turn?
I was just wondering if anyone out there was lucky enough to have either an understanding partner or one that enjoys participating? (Or ever better still, one who's idea it was in the first place)?
Many years ago I was lucky enough to have a brief encounter with a girl who openly encouraged me to wear a satin skirt and a dress of hers before I had even had then chance to reveal my love of them to her. I remember thinking to myself that there and then that I was the lickiest guy alive, and I was, for a short while until she stopped returning my calls.
I have had a few partners since but none of them whom I have felt would be confortable enough with it for me to start dropping gentle hints -or- anyone willing to get involved, never mind anyone who has asked me to do it for them before I'd even mentioned it.
I realise that this will be a male dominated community but do such women exist? Are there, for example, any female members of this forum that have such a passion for Satin that the guys do?
Just wondering if there is any such thing anymore as that rare breed of lady that are into Satin too? If you read on you will understand my reason for asking...
I have tried broaching the subject of my passion for Satin with my current partner and although trying to be extremely subtle about it and moving things very slowly I seem to have hit a brick wall. I started out by letting my partner know that I found Satin extremely sexy, that I was driven crazy by the look and feel of it and she never raised an eyebrow, probably because, quite deliberatly, I never revealed the full extent of my fetish. (I hate the 'F' word! Seems to have such a stigma attached to it that scares most ladies half to death!) Anyway, I then went a little further and suggested that she might wear some during our fun times and that it would certainly make things more interesting and offered to return the favour if she had any particluar 'likes'? Again she seemed ok with this so I finally plucked up the courage to buy her a sexy black pleated satin mini-skirt and again she was fine. Opting to wear it on occasions herself without needing any prompting from me at all. However, a while ago however I realised that she had not worn it for quite a considerable time and I very sucsinktly dropped it into conversation only to be told that she now apparently finds the thought of the whole thing "depraved and perverted". (Slightly harsh I thought), and she has refused to wear the skirt for a long time since. (We never got to the point of me actually revealing the full extent of my love for the stuff or of me telling her that I'd like to wear the skirt myself during sex, so I am pretty confident that this is not the reason she had had the sudden U-turn?
I was just wondering if anyone out there was lucky enough to have either an understanding partner or one that enjoys participating? (Or ever better still, one who's idea it was in the first place)?
Many years ago I was lucky enough to have a brief encounter with a girl who openly encouraged me to wear a satin skirt and a dress of hers before I had even had then chance to reveal my love of them to her. I remember thinking to myself that there and then that I was the lickiest guy alive, and I was, for a short while until she stopped returning my calls.
I have had a few partners since but none of them whom I have felt would be confortable enough with it for me to start dropping gentle hints -or- anyone willing to get involved, never mind anyone who has asked me to do it for them before I'd even mentioned it.
I realise that this will be a male dominated community but do such women exist? Are there, for example, any female members of this forum that have such a passion for Satin that the guys do?