Getting the Girlfriend involved!

[adamski500]

Hi all,

I was just interested in anyone had any advice / experience in getting girlfriends to wear more satin - particularly for sex?

My g/f and i have lots of sex, sometimes her wearing lingerie / corsets etc. but I would love her to wear one of her sexy satin dresses. I know she will think it stranre, so I just wondered if anyone had any good experience of approaching the subject etc.

Would also be interested in hear the womens side of the story!

[deleted]

When my girlfriend and I were walking around the shops one Saturday afternoon, I asked her if she wanted to pop into a lingerie shop so I could buy her something sexy. She said sure, why not. Then I walked over to the satin nighties and said that I liked that kind of silky lingerie so I got her it. Definitely don't mention the F word 'cause that might freak her out! I'd say you'd be safer getting your girlfriend to wear a satin nightdress rather than a dress.

[ilovesatin3]

When the conversation came about,what turns you on in the bedroom,(we did have wine before hand!) i just came out with it told her that the posh look looks sooooo sexy turns me on and i went to her wardrobe and picked her lovely satin dress needless to say i had fab evening!my advice be open about what turns you on goodluck!

[BarbiSatin]

Why not get a set of bridal satin sheets. Then give her a massage with the satin. I have done that with women and they went wild from the sensations. One girl told me she never imagined anythng could feel so good.

[fulhambawbag]

Yeah, just be straight up about it. I went along the lines of explaining how hot she looked at her Christmas Ball in her gown and that I loved the idea of having it off with a woman dressed so beautifully - the kind of complete opposite of slutty! Worked anyway and now she wears all sorts of silk and satin skirts, wedding gowns, ballgowns and corsets. The other day I asked her to wear two silk skirts under her silk ballgown as the sheer number of silk layers turned me on. Fantastic!

[ssl485]

Instead of telling them that satin is your fetish, explain that you have a heightened sense of touch, and love the feel of anything soft (e.g satin) against your skin, and that it would stimulate you greatly during sex. Once you've explored this, suggest one day that she wears the dress without making a big deal about it. Easy.

I've had 4 proper girlfriends, and the same technique has worked on each one. You'll find they're more than happy to wear satin for you if they think it'll add something/please you.