Fetish Dating
Posted: Wed Apr 03, 2013 9:57 pm
Maybe some of you can relate. I have felt a bit of shame for my fetishes for most of my life. I thought that my love of satin, latex, and other shiny things was something that would turn into an unhealthy obsession. But I have since come to an understanding that that is just part of my personality. I can't help what I'm attracted to. And if I could get rid of my fetishes I don't think I would anymore. I really enjoy coming home from work, taking off my normal clothes, and dressing myself up in whatever outrageously shiny outfit I have on hand.
I've been somewhat open about my kinks with past girlfriends (I'm a guy) but they have never been that into anything. That's completely understandable. I don't know if I would be able to please a woman who had a denim fetish. But now that I'm kind of starting real life (25 y/o) I feel like I should indulge myself with what I really want. I really want a partner who gets off by wearing satin/latex/silk/pvc and dressing me up as well. I want to to come home from work and be told to strip naked and get into a sissy dress for the evening. Or maybe it's catsuit tuesday or satin pajama thursday. You get the picture.
I have just recently joined fetlife as well as this site looking for an entrance to the fetish community. It seems to me though that most of us are men. I know there are women satin lovers out there but what a rare find they seem to be. I would just start wearing satin and rubber in public hoping to meet people but I havent "come out" to my family and friends yet. I don't plan to unless absolutely necessary.
Those of you who are dating/married to other fetishists, tell me how you found them!
I've been somewhat open about my kinks with past girlfriends (I'm a guy) but they have never been that into anything. That's completely understandable. I don't know if I would be able to please a woman who had a denim fetish. But now that I'm kind of starting real life (25 y/o) I feel like I should indulge myself with what I really want. I really want a partner who gets off by wearing satin/latex/silk/pvc and dressing me up as well. I want to to come home from work and be told to strip naked and get into a sissy dress for the evening. Or maybe it's catsuit tuesday or satin pajama thursday. You get the picture.
I have just recently joined fetlife as well as this site looking for an entrance to the fetish community. It seems to me though that most of us are men. I know there are women satin lovers out there but what a rare find they seem to be. I would just start wearing satin and rubber in public hoping to meet people but I havent "come out" to my family and friends yet. I don't plan to unless absolutely necessary.
Those of you who are dating/married to other fetishists, tell me how you found them!