Satin Fetish Forum

I have a question. Does the term "tranny" mean transvestite or transexual? I would think a transvestite dresses in women's clothes but a transexual has changed to the opposite sex by way of surgery, hormones, etc.

maxilover wrote:Just because you like the feel of satin against your skin , it doesn't make you a transvestite . If you want to slip a dress on to experience this , or a coat to feel the smooth lining against your skin that is perfectly normal , all you have is a fetish . You are not hurting anyone , in any way , doing any wrong , its just a added sexual sensation . To me if you feel the desire to dress like a woman all the time then that is a transvestite . Every person as there own pleasure , i judge no one if its harmless .Go out and buy yourself a dress , then enjoy the sensation that we all do here

Thanks maxilover, I know this as become a discussion about what it is transvestite or not, but I appreciate your answer

I would like to know the opinion of women about this thread, unless some woman has already answered and I didn't know...

UPDATE: I am trying to give my GF the opprtunity to have satisfied her fetish, (it implies a deslocation to a certain place) and then I can gain courage to tell my fetish...I found a place, now I only need the time and money to give her the satisfaction...

NanoNeutel wrote:I would like to know the opinion of women about this thread, unless some woman has already answered and I didn't know...

Hello Nano,

I can't speak for all women, but personally I do not think there is anything wrong with you. Yes, there may be some people, men and women, who would think this is weird. However, you should know there will always be narrow-minded, judgmental people in this world and there's nothing you can do about that. All you can do is be yourself and be honest with yourself about who you are and if people can't accept that then that's their hang up, not yours. My husband was quite reticent about revealing his fetish for satin clothing, especially the lingerie, but when he did I didn't think any less of him. In fact, I found it quite adorable and it gave me the courage to reveal mine to him. It takes a lot of courage to put yourself out there like that and I think the fact that your girlfriend had the courage to share hers with you is a good indication that she would appreciate the same from you when you're ready to do so if you ever get there. Perhaps at first she may be confused and wonder why you have the fetish you do, but it sounds like you have a strong relationship since she was able to bring herself to reveal hers to you. If she doesn't understand yours at first, then it will be something you want to discuss with her to help her understand you better and if she understands you then she will be more likely to support you rather than look down on you. If I may make a suggestion, perhaps the next time you are discussing her fetish you can work yours into the conversation. You might consider saying something like "Honey, you've told me about your fetish. I know that took a lot of courage to do so and I appreciate and respect the fact that you did that, so let me be honest and tell you about a secret I've been keeping." It doesn't have to be these exact words, but something along these lines might work. You understand the nature of your relationship better than any of us here do, so you can figure out the best way and time time to work it into a discussion with her. No matter how you decide to handle this, I wish you the best and I hope it goes well for you. Good luck!

~satingirl

satingirl82 wrote:

NanoNeutel wrote:I would like to know the opinion of women about this thread, unless some woman has already answered and I didn't know...

Hello Nano,

I can't speak for all women, but personally I do not think there is anything wrong with you. Yes, there may be some people, men and women, who would think this is weird. However, you should know there will always be narrow-minded, judgmental people in this world and there's nothing you can do about that. All you can do is be yourself and be honest with yourself about who you are and if people can't accept that then that's their hang up, not yours. My husband was quite reticent about revealing his fetish for satin clothing, especially the lingerie, but when he did I didn't think any less of him. In fact, I found it quite adorable and it gave me the courage to reveal mine to him. It takes a lot of courage to put yourself out there like that and I think the fact that your girlfriend had the courage to share hers with you is a good indication that she would appreciate the same from you when you're ready to do so if you ever get there. Perhaps at first she may be confused and wonder why you have the fetish you do, but it sounds like you have a strong relationship since she was able to bring herself to reveal hers to you. If she doesn't understand yours at first, then it will be something you want to discuss with her to help her understand you better and if she understands you then she will be more likely to support you rather than look down on you. If I may make a suggestion, perhaps the next time you are discussing her fetish you can work yours into the conversation. You might consider saying something like "Honey, you've told me about your fetish. I know that took a lot of courage to do so and I appreciate and respect the fact that you did that, so let me be honest and tell you about a secret I've been keeping." It doesn't have to be these exact words, but something along these lines might work. You understand the nature of your relationship better than any of us here do, so you can figure out the best way and time time to work it into a discussion with her. No matter how you decide to handle this, I wish you the best and I hope it goes well for you. Good luck!

~satingirl

Thanks for the answer, satingirl

UPDATE: Me and my girlfriend talked about sexual fantasies and I dropped the bomb (saying that I already dressed myself with female clothes...) She reacted well although I'm still too shy and said to her that probably I wouldn't look good in female clothes (she offered herself to lend some clothes of her).

Now the next stages, to tell her my ultimate fantasy and to buy the wedding dress of my dreams, literally

Thank you for your support

What happend with your "next stage"?

Dennis wrote:What happend with your "next stage"?

Well Dennis, even if our girlfriend knows the truth, it is very hard to me to buy a wedding dress without suspicions...even in the internet. Or I'm still afraid of buying it, I don't know...

NanoNeutel wrote:

Dennis wrote:What happend with your "next stage"?

Well Dennis, even if our girlfriend knows the truth, it is very hard to me to buy a wedding dress without suspicions...even in the internet. Or I'm still afraid of buying it, I don't know...

Come on, it's your dream!
1. Let your girlfriend buying it or together!
2. Buy it yourself, enjoy the fear and after that you'll be happy...
3. Let the others think... they do not know for who the dress is...
I only want to help you, don't forget!

Love this thread! I'll keep these in mind. Speaking of answers, I myself got answers from the SatinFun Marriage woman about my silk fetish and trying to have a woman understand my fetish as well as mutually share it. I hope she doesn't mind me sharing what she told me...could help others too if in the same situation.

"I really cant give you exact advice on how to have a relationship since everyone is there own world.
But if you want to have you satin fetish enjoyed mutually by your partner and yourself just be sincere and work first on a good stable comunication with her.
And during sex be open and talk about your sexuality and ask her always what she likes and try and get her to open totally about what she does and doesn't like during sexual intimacy, who know you might be surprised and what can float a woman's boat jajaja .

Just remember that a satin fetish involving satin items can easily be misjudged for a sexual preference problem and she might not understand and also she might think that you will only feel aroused if she is wearing or using satin for sex and that might make her feel unattractive for you have the need to enjoy her with this fetish in mind.

Good thing is that satin is a very sexy fetish and most women find it very appealing used as a 4play item to caress her body with it, start from there, tell her that you saw once in a erotic film that the man massaged the body of the woman with a satin scarf and the image of the womans body slowly being touched by the soft silk insinuating her body at all moments was a huge turn on and that you would love to practice this technic on her, and then you could ask her to masturbate and tease your cock the same way and maybe by doing this you can give her signs that you feel extremely turned on by this method and leave it at that, so that every time you experience sex with her you can give her the chance to incorporate these things into your sex life letting you enjoy it and giving her time to accept it.

these things take time depending on the person but just always be calm about it and always be tasteful when it comes to fetishes.

Make her feel she has given you this new found pleasure and that she has been the first woman to ever give you such an erotic and amazing experience."

Hey all,

I have had a satin fetish since an early age.. I enjoy the feelings and sensations of satin.. It originually started as a confort thing when i was very young but became part of my sex life from the start.. I get an extreme turn on from satin as it is, satin wetlook, satin messy play,( Even satin destruction with i don't don very often.) At present i am very lucky as my partner knows all my fetish and very accepting of them and edulgies them. In return i try to incorperate my satin fetish into her taistes..

I think may be early discolsure maybe the key, every one has their kink or fetish.. I can only speak from my relationship, but from a early stage i told her and my taistes.. Not on the first time of course and not all at once.. As i knew it was starting to get serious and slow slipped the satin in.. I would put on her satin dressing gown which i had baught her afterward sex which i suspect would not be uncommon, which inturn would lead to more sex because of the turn on for me.. Buying her satin Cloths also in turn gave me a reason to have satin in my cuboard.. As she became acustom to the satin, i started picking my moments to expand on it.. I would wait for her to get a shower afterward then get in it with her, wearing the dressing gown of couse slowly introducing the wetlook side of it that i like.. Wether it was the maddness of the first romantic period of the relationship of the fact the my current partner is no stranger to fetishes, she nether really had any problems with it.. These days i find that as long as i can fit her taists in with the satin it is all good, remember it's about her/him to..

Once i knew she was bi-sexual that opened up a window for me for the dresses.. and well thing went from their..
I suspect ultimately because it was introduced at the right time, as in at the point were we knew each other to be confortable but still at the point of the madness of first love were every thing seems, well mad.. As long as your not in her face with it and resist the tempation to get carried away. Sex is about feeling wether that be from the the every day sex game that we do for the fun or the romantic love making we do with our partners, the rough, the soft..

I have to admit to start a new relationship now would be harder with all the dresses in the cuboard, some being mine and some being my current partners.. I would probably have to get rid of the dresses, but i would keep the satin dressing gowns, jackets and sleeping pants... Things i could get away with, as no matter what my satin fetish will alway be part of my life, and as my current partner has observed it makes a big difference.. Sorry but at this point wether be it age (32) or experince i know who i am and for any women to want me to accept her and appreciate her, she most have to show the same respect in return..

I have noticed the debate over what makes a transvestite ( If i spelt that wrong sorry..lol ).. I can't help wondering what would it matter.. I have worn satin dresses for my partner before, ( but satin dresses are not as enjoyable as when she wears them ), I usually wear satin dressing gowns, satin jackets and satin sleeping pants usually clothing that is classed as unix sex, surely wether that would make me a transvestite or not is null/void surely the only thing that matter would be that i enjoy wearing them both in a sexual sense and every day sense, being that it turns me on and hightens the feeling during sex and is a confort to me during other times..

Satin White Knight..

NanoNeutel wrote:

Dennis wrote:What happend with your "next stage"?

Well Dennis, even if our girlfriend knows the truth, it is very hard to me to buy a wedding dress without suspicions...even in the internet. Or I'm still afraid of buying it, I don't know...

I like you am a straight, male who has taistes that could be seen as taboo, I'm fairly lucky in respects to my partner, as she is aware and accepting of my fetish.. I do like to watch ( Trash the Dress ), i assume most of you know what trash the dress is.. Basic it's considered art, were a photographer does a photo shot of brides after the wedding wearing their dress in situations that they would not consider normally, basicually any thing goes hence the name. Alot of it is actuall quite taistefull and there are some extremely artistic shoots from them. I enjoy many different activitties with satin, and I do admitt that i find Trash the Dress scene in satin a trun on, i suspect the destructive part of my fetish could be a dominance thing and i have often wondered what it would feel like to be wearing the satin wedding dress at the time .. Any way i'm wondering from the point..

One of the things i thought of doing was a charty marathan for charity wearing a satin wedding dress.. This would not only give you the opportunity to have the dress and test wether this is what you want but would also raise money for any charity cause you care about.. Remembering that you can change you mind about the dress at any point, and i suposse the type of charity event could be open for decission as well.. If you feel that the urge is satified or pushes beyond your confort level you can always dispose of the dress how ever you feel confortable with and run the marothan in some thing different.. I'm sure there would be a number of people the would gladly to the dress of your hands..

Another possible option would probably be to have the dress delivered to some one you trust using a cover story, book your self into a hotel for a night and basicually find out how you feel about it..

Great news everybody!

My girlfriend knows everything about my fetish and accepted it all!

Of course that's still secret to the rest of the world, but for me it is a great start!

Now I only need the wedding dress and accesories and then...PLEASURE!

Thank you all for your support!