How did you introduce your satin fetish to your partner?

[Satinj]

My wife knows about my love for satin and will wear satin nighties when we have sex. I'd love to hear how you introduced your partner to your love of satin and also how you took it further - like wearing satin yourself.

[satincdnorth]

my gfs have always worn for me as i buy them satin nighties at first then panty and bra sets and then if we have been out drinking i can test the water by wearing the panties i have bought them and see how they react when i have them, if both been drinking it's easy to laugh about it the next day if she didn't approve but most have loved the feel of it on me. I did used to start with satin boxer shorts years ago but they are so out of fashion new i go for her panties on a drunken night out once home. Only ever did one GF say never ever wear that again others have indulged me and it got to the point with most where if we went away they would even pack some for me and I would be able to wear them 24/7 when away on holidays/weekends away.

Test the water when drunk is my best advice

[Satinj]

my gfs have always worn for me as i buy them satin nighties at first then panty and bra sets and then if we have been out drinking i can test the water by wearing the panties i have bought them and see how they react when i have them, if both been drinking it's easy to laugh about it the next day if she didn't approve but most have loved the feel of it on me. I did used to start with satin boxer shorts years ago but they are so out of fashion new i go for her panties on a drunken night out once home. Only ever did one GF say never ever wear that again others have indulged me and it got to the point with most where if we went away they would even pack some for me and I would be able to wear them 24/7 when away on holidays/weekends away.

Test the water when drunk is my best advice

Unfortunately she doesn't drink as that is a good idea. I like the idea of joking about it and seeing if she is interested.

[Spider]

First, I look for signs of satin on the woman. That's a dead giveaway that she's into it. It might be a satin bra, satin camisole or better yet, a satin blouse. A lot of women show me their underwear, if their panties are satin, I'm interested. (I'm 6' 2" with an athletic build. Women find me attractive.)

Second, she has to really be attracted to me. I'll never convince a woman who's marginally interested in me to dress in a way that turns me on.

Third, I ask questions, lots of questions. Like, "What are your beliefs about men?" "Do you sleep nude?" and "What is foreplay for you?"

When the stars align, her response is usually, "I can't wait to show you my favorite satin blouse." Then we're off to the races.

I can rule out half of all women right out of the gate, they're only interested in nude sex. And that's OK. I've had girlfriends who tolerated it, but they were always talking about how they wanted to train me out of it.

When the stars align, the sex is legendary. I had a relationship back in the '80's with a woman who was into it more than I was. She was divorced, and her husband had preferred her nude. He didn't even want her to wear lingerie when she slept. We had this torrid fling that lasted six months. She was so overwhelmed by it that she got very possessive and I bolted. When I got divorced, I looked her up, but she had passed.

[Spider]

My first girlfriend was wearing this blouse on our first date.

[Satinj]

My partner wears satin for me as she knows I get turned on by it. I just can't pluck up the courage to wear it myself. I need to figure out a way for her to suggest it I think.

[satincdnorth]

I have been lucky and most women I have met have been happy to indulge my fetish and eventually let me wear satin panties with them. It even got the point with one partner where she would pack underwear for both of us.