Approaching satin ladies

[Menialskivvy]

I'll admit to you all that I'm terrible at chatting and approaching women who I don't know. I'm painfully shy but if I'm having a night out, and I see a lady or girl wearing a satin dress or blouse, I will screw up my courage and compliment the lady on her outfit. I should mention that I'm single so I'm not chatting up women behind a partners back. Of course I don't mention I have a fetish, but I will say things like "That dress looks stunning on you, is it pure silk?". It can lead to interesting conversations at the very least.

Does anyone else go out of their way to talk to satin ladies about their clothes? I figure, since I'm single, that I've nothing to lose by this, and you'd be suprised by the positive reactions you get.

I recently saw a mature but classy looking elegant blonde lady in a department store wearing a VERY expensive satin blouse and I approached her and politely asked her where she had bought it. What followed was a lengthy discussion with a beautiful lady about the different qualities of satins, how good satin blouses hang and move while being worn. I was invited to touch and feel the satin so I could appreciate how luxurious it was! My advice is go for it!

[satinstainer]

Wow !! That's pretty cool you can get some rapport going with them !! If I tried that, I'd probably get slapped

[Menialskivvy]

The thing to remember is that the lady is probably not even aware of the effect satin has, for her it's just any other item of clothing. So I'm very polite and try and hide my excitement and try and converse normally. Tip - most women regard the colour of the garment as more important than the fabric, they don't wear that blouse or dress because its satin, they wear it because its red, blue, white or whatever to match their other clothes. So I mention the colour to them as much as anything else.

[satinstainer]

The thing to remember is that the lady is probably not even aware of the effect satin has, for her it's just any other item of clothing. So I'm very polite and try and hide my excitement and try and converse normally. Tip - most women regard the colour of the garment as more important than the fabric, they don't wear that blouse or dress because its satin, they wear it because its red, blue, white or whatever to match their other clothes. So I mention the colour to them as much as anything else.

Yeah, that's a good topic to converse about and it seems like most women enjoy talking about clothing

[IReallyLovePureSilk]

It was August and I was getting me a replacement pizza oven. As I was going to the checkstands, I saw this good looking blonde from afar in a long and flowing purple printed satin scarf dress. Definitely flowed like silk too! I decided to follow her to the register she was going to. I couldn't tell if she was cute or not since I didn't get a good look at her face but I definitely stood right behind her in the line just mostly staring at her dress...and her body...just yearning to get a touch of it. I didn't say anything yet to her, but up until she got next in line...I put my oven on the belt and got a better look at what she looked like...she was much better looking than I imagined! I decided to compliment her and said "I really love your dress!" She looked at me and smiled and said "Thank you!" From there, I really wished I said more but I kind of froze at that moment. She left the register and I was next to do my purchase. I tried to see if she was still around the area but no sign of her after I got done paying for my oven. I would've loved to have gotten a picture...or even a number! I'll try to be more confident once I see another beauty dressed in silk/satin! Missed opportunity, but that was a day to remember!

[jonboy]

Well I can use my youth here to its full advantage with the more mature lady often flattered at receiving attention from a younger model like myself.

But I think the most important thing to remember is the much underrated and underused art of communication.

I see so many people who are so full of their own sense of self-importance, or put more crudely "up themselves", that they just want to bulldoze the conversation, doing all the talking and missing out on all the little cues and indicators that can come back.

Communication is a two way process but so many people seem to miss this point completely.

If I am ever at a party, wedding, works function, whatever, I always try to engage any satin clad ladies in conversation.

And the communication is not just verbal.
So much is said by body language, and particularly, I find, by the the eyes.
Always look deep into their eyes.

I have sometimes complemented a woman on what she is wearing and even though she is flattered and thanks me politley I can sense that she feels it is an inappropriate comment for me to have made, in which case I move on elsewhere.

Other times the vibes are much more positive and I have had varying degress of success from a whizz round a dance floor with a bridesmaid or whoever, to several fondles and snogs, and on one occasion I am sure I would have had intercourse with the woman if was not for the fact she was wearing trousers instead of a skirt making the practicalities get in the way of the heat of the moment.

I try to snap pics of any satin clad women on my phone at any events I attend where I can, and I'll see if I can dig a few out if anyone is interested.

So my advice, for what it's worth, is if you see a lady in satin, go for it.
Don't let age be a barrier.
I have fondled and kissed women in their 40's and 50's, and very nice it was too.
And remember to listen as well as talk, not just listen to what they say, but look for the body language as well.

[PantyThief]

Well I can use my youth here to its full advantage with the more mature lady often flattered at receiving attention from a younger model like myself.

But I think the most important thing to remember is the much underrated and underused art of communication.

I see so many people who are so full of their own sense of self-importance, or put more crudely "up themselves", that they just want to bulldoze the conversation, doing all the talking and missing out on all the little cues and indicators that can come back.

Communication is a two way process but so many people seem to miss this point completely.

If I am ever at a party, wedding, works function, whatever, I always try to engage any satin clad ladies in conversation.

And the communication is not just verbal.
So much is said by body language, and particularly, I find, by the the eyes.
Always look deep into their eyes.

I have sometimes complemented a woman on what she is wearing and even though she is flattered and thanks me politley I can sense that she feels it is an inappropriate comment for me to have made, in which case I move on elsewhere.

Other times the vibes are much more positive and I have had varying degress of success from a whizz round a dance floor with a bridesmaid or whoever, to several fondles and snogs, and on one occasion I am sure I would have had intercourse with the woman if was not for the fact she was wearing trousers instead of a skirt making the practicalities get in the way of the heat of the moment.

I try to snap pics of any satin clad women on my phone at any events I attend where I can, and I'll see if I can dig a few out if anyone is interested.

So my advice, for what it's worth, is if you see a lady in satin, go for it.
Don't let age be a barrier.
I have fondled and kissed women in their 40's and 50's, and very nice it was too.
And remember to listen as well as talk, not just listen to what they say, but look for the body language as well.

Would love to see some of those pics!

[Dreamsofdresses]

Agreed

Want to see these pictures too. Great advice by the way... For the singles anyway.

[jonboy]

ok - well - I will have to go back through stuff I have taken over the past few years.

I found this one on my laptop.

Took it at a product lauch luncheon in Birmingham.

She was very much in the appreciated the compliment but not interested category.

[wheelie]

ok - well - I will have to go back through stuff I have taken over the past few years.

I found this one on my laptop.

Took it at a product lauch luncheon in Birmingham.

She was very much in the appreciated the compliment but not interested category.

DING DONG...I've got a sticky product I'd like to launch over her

[jonboy]

Actually she was a very nice lady.

She really was flattered by the attention but no way she would have acted on it.

[satinstainer]

Chances are she will probably always remember that you complimented her though, especially when she wears that same dress

[jonboy]

I doubt she will remember it now - it was a little while back.

It only stands out for me because it was one of the rare occasions I managed to get a decent pic of the woman as well.

One thing that has always struck me when chatting someone up is a woman's incredible perception when you take even the most fleeting glance at her boobs.

No matter how subtle you think you are being they immediately look down at their chest to check that a button hasn't come undone or whether a nipple is poking out, and then there is that awful embarrassing pause before you resume the conversation when you both know that you have being trying to eye up her tits.

When the girl is showing some cleavage, or for me worse still, if she has really huge breasts, I find it nearly impossible to just keep eye contact when talking to them and to stop my eyes from straying down onto their breasts.

And then there's the situation where they are seated, when their skirt or hem of their dress rides up their leg revealing so much leg there's just the smallest whisp of fabric preserving their modesty.
Trying not to look is almost impossible.

Ah well .....

[satinstainer]

I believe MOST women would rather be looked over than overlooked

[RodaSaTiNStein]

Today I had this thing due in at University, so I did an all nighter to finished, and went to the library to print it off. When I got there a female student from my class was doing the same thing and I noticed that she was wearing a red satin blouse. It looked great on her and kept looking at her while both in the library and while in class. Then when class finish, she said good bye and then I told her that I loved her top and that it looked classy. She smiled and said thanx

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