I'm not sure where to post these thoughts, so I guess I'll use my own thread.
Even though most of you don't leave any replies for me, I thought I'd share a little of me with you..... Because my current girlfriend has been a big part in my clothed sex preferences lately,I've been giving my fetish(s) some thought, and basically have come to the conclusion that mine seems to consist of two parts.
The first and largest part is my overall appreciation for a woman in pretty, "silky feeling" (which can be several different types of fabrics) dresses and outfits. Those can range from slips and lingerie to skirts & blouses to prom/wedding dresses.I have been a sucker for a woman in a dress for as long as I can remember. I don't recollect how it started, I just know I have been
I do prefer "silky feeling" ones over those that aren't (cotton, jean,etc) but they can still LOOK good too. I never did get into wearing the clothing, or get a desire for coats, jackets, etc. No offense towards those that do though. I know many of you don't enjoy cumming on your clothing, and there's nothing wrong with that either. To each our own
As I got a little older and the hormones started running, sneaking feels and kisses, etc from girls who were wearing dresses, etc, became a preference for me. I guess I've always been a "leg man" and even though I didn't/don't mind the sight of the right woman in tight fitting jeans, or certain dress slacks, a dress showing a nice set of legs....oooohhhh yeah
Girls wearing dresses that showed lots of leg was the style then too
When I was in high school, many of the girls wore skirts & dresses with nylons. (I personally think they almost always make a womans legs look sexier, but I'm not into the colored ones...just nude and suntan
) I was always more turned on when my girlfriend wore a dress to school, and I REALLY looked forward to dances & proms, etc
There were days when she was sitting next to me in classes that I had a boner all friggin' day
I was into sports and on event days the guys on the team and the cheerleaders had to dress up. Of course, my girlfriend was a cheerleader. I believe those years were the basis for the way I am now.
Along with that came my desire to make love to, (or fuck the hell out of !!) a girl while she is wearing these types of garments. That started with my ex wife in the late 70's, and quickly became something I looked for in each future girlfriend after her. I enjoy undressing a woman, but I'm definetly more into the CFNM thing, and have been for probably 35 yrs or more. Seeing,touching & rubbing & feeling her entire body with various parts of mine while she is clothed really gets me wound up. Hearing the sound the material makes as she moves and as it slides up over her hips, or off her shoulders, etc,etc adds "ambiance" of sorts to the act. I sometimes "use" her clothing to create a sexual setting in my mind too I guess.
I also enjoy acting out different sexual situations
Some of those are much better when clothing is involved too
Sometimes the nicer the clothing...the more erotic it is
I have always been pretty selective about how and when I do that type of thing though....for various reasons
Cumming on a woman and/or wrecking her her outfit I guess started in the late 80's with a girlfriend I had at that time whom was into all kinds of fun with dresses
I haven't been able to do that too many times since her, but each time I have, or can, that is one of my ultimate fantasies
The second part of my fetish which is much simpler and less hassle I think, is the thrill I get out cumming (and ??!!) on a nice dress or outfit and of seeing my cum stain it to the point of ruining it. Obviously, my fetish for ruining dresses is no secret on here !!! I'm not really sure how it came to be, but it even turns me on when a woman gets rid of "silky",etc clothing by throwing it away. When my girlfriend put that burgundy dress in my garbage, I 'bout blew a load in my pants. That part of my fetish I have no explanation for
I guess that falls under the "weird" category for sure !! I prefer a woman to be wearing it of course, but I can easily imagine a scenario to abuse a dress with by myself. It's one thing to get your woman to let you cum on her, but asking her to keep the dress to use repeatedly is another
Most girls wouldn't be into that without washing it, which is understandable, (but defeats my purpose !!) I think whether I have a girlfriend or not, I will always enjoy cumming on and ruining an occasional dress. My girlfriend does not know about my "dress collection" and what all I do to them, but she is finding out what I like to do with hers
As long as I keep her happy, I don't really think she'd get too bent out of shape about it if she found out, but it's not really something she NEEDS to know about either
I may have to re-evaluate the situation when we move in together though
If it came down to her or the dresses, the dresses would go, but I know that wouldn't be easy
In a way, it's like a bad habit
On a serious note, as I've mentioned before, bringing a fetish such as mine into ANY relationship and especially this one has to be done carefully and with respect to all involved. For instance, her three daughters think I'm the best thing next to their I phones and often ask my opinion on many things including their choices of dresses for their events, proms, etc. Her middle daughter asked for my help in picking out her 3 graduation pics for her invitations, most of which she was wearing a dress in. My girlfriend asked me to help pick out her dress for her older daughter's wedding next month. It's hard to look at a dress sometimes without thinking about cumming on it, and I don't like that feeling
I have to keep a solid line drawn here between these "interests" of mine. Her family knows NOTHING about my fetishes and it needs to stay that way.I am sure anyone of you out here that either has, or is involved with a family with girls can relate to what I'm saying here.
In the past two years I've considered giving up my cumming on dresses thing because I was afraid of it interfering with my relationship, but I didn't and it hasn't.....so far. I've been trying to keep things REAL cool, ya know ??!! Discovering that there are others out here into this type of thing has, if anything, just increased my interest in it. I discovered this forum for the first time about a month after meeting my girlfriend. I was on here for a short time under the user name of "silkstainer" That was two years ago this last Oct. Since I also seem to have a fascination for seeing people cumming on clothes, their girlfriends, etc, I checked back into here this past Nov and have been "cumming" right along
It's kind of funny that my girlfriend has actually brought me in dresses that have arrived on the days that she's checked my mail
She NEVER gets nosey or anything though. I've been with a few that would have opened the package before it was even brought in
Since there are things that do come for HER, I've managed to get by with it. When I give her things, they may have been here for awhile. I do that in a "special" way. There have been a few things that she knows I had that she doesn't ask me about either.....a red dress I got her the first year we were together that was too small, a blue silk camisole/panty outfit she more or less "gave me", that burgundy dress that she folded up so nice & pretty and put in my trash, the satin skirt I bought her recently that was too long....she probably don't ask because she's afraid to know
I always compliment her on her looks, even when she's wearing sweats (:evil:
!!), or doesn't think she looks pretty, etc and that makes her feel good. To me, she does look good in anything, though when she dresses up, I really pour on the compliments !!!!
We built a pretty strong relationship before I started bringing my fetish into it which I think was a good idea.
Oh well....I guess I've said enough about myself
